Difficult decision

Making the decision to stay home or work  can be a difficult process. There is no right answer.  Experts  encourages each woman to make the choice that brings her closest to fulfilling her hopes and dreams.

Some said it is damaging . Others maintain that there is really no evidence to support that statement. It’s shown that children who are in quality day care have increases in cognitive skills, intellect, social skills and social comfort. But how many of these “quality day care “ are there????

Another issue is finances. Many women work to be prepared for unforeseen circumstances like a husband's unemployment, a divorce, or illness.  This is truly important!!!!

Stay-at-home moms always  boast that they have never missed a milestone in their children's lives. But if you don't see the first step, you'll see the second and the third. Nobody wants to be working 10 hours a day and missing your family life. But if you need the money or need to save some money just in case…..

Truth is any women hope to be a parent and pursue a career and they often become depressed when they are stuck solely in a parenting capacity. If the child is mothered by a parent who is feeling frustrated and depressed and empty, that is bad right?  Besides  you can nurture your child and still work. Many full time working mums do that!