No one prepared me for this. My figure just went out so much, I avoid my mirror.
The full length at home which I loved so much before, I feel like covering it up.
Nothing fits me. I hated maternity clothes I do. It's not cute.
I looked like a whale, trouble is I still do!
My skin is different.The softness is gone, now it's blotchy
& looks disgusting.
Time to get back in shape. I am miserable!
Should I go on a diet? Which diet? Only veg & fruits
diet? But fruits are sweet & veg cant quench my hunger, I need the energy
for the baby! Taking care of her is so tough.
I need a maid. But she's not here yet!!!!! And all the
horrid stories i hear about some maids beating & pinching babies......
Exercise, gym? no time to hit the gym.....
I need a facial NOW!!!
I feel the same way so sad!
ReplyDeleteMy sis-in-law is the skinny kind, after 2 kids still so skinny, skinnier than me (no kids, not married....lol...) makes me so damn jealous!
ReplyDeleteSigh... so lucky, don't blame you for being jealous !
DeleteStumble on you blog! I'm also one of those that's pretty skinny, so I look fine on the outside. But the tummy area is not losing the weight,its flabby- quite awful! :(
DeleteUse cream for the area. You should be grateful you are the skinny kind...lol... for the rest of us, it's a great big battle to lose all those weight!
DeleteI was the skinny kind too. Now I'm so out of shape. Depressed! Wonder how long will I get back to shape.
ReplyDeleteWell as long as you start now, you shouldn't worry. don't wait.
DeleteAgree, do it asap.
DeleteI'm guilty for thinking ,my baby is a "burden" ....sob..... am I a bad bad mum? I'm young :(
ReplyDeleteDon't beat yourself up. All of us have thought of that from time to time. Being a mum is very stressful - it's only natural to have these tots sometimes. Jia You!
DeleteWhat Mabel said is true, don't worry too much, we are all human.
DeleteJust try your best. I felt the same way for my first kid. Even when the 2nd came along, I do have these thoughts too. But they quickly disappear as well. I love my kids :)
Thank you so much for all your support. She's getting better & cuter by the minute, I love her so much now. The 'burden thingie" or feeling is not there anymore. My MIL helps now , so it's much better :))
DeleteOk if you are thinking whether will you make a good mum, here's what you can do. A friend suggest that to me & I tot, hmmm..... not such a bad idea:))
ReplyDeleteShe said why don't you get puppy & take care of it. Having a child is something like that ...lol... If you cant even take care of a pup, then forget about the kid ....lol....
wow... I think a baby is quite different- much much more difficult then taking care of puppies.
DeleteThat's what I meant. Puppy is already easier but if one cant even handle that..... better don't have a kid. Like they say "it takes a village to raise a kid !"
DeleteTrue :)
DeleteNow you know why most families started hiring maids when they have a new born- you really need all the help you can get !
ReplyDeleteWith new borns it's good to hire experienced maids, or at least those with a few children of their own. Those young ones ,who are the youngest in their family- stay away from them!
DeleteYes agree, many maids actually do not need to do any house work at home since they are the youngest. They practically know nothing, & it's time consuming to teach.
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