Monday, 1 July 2013

So when is a good time to have the next kid?

So when is a good time to have the next kid? I'm thinking like- never!

Just when I'm thinking about going back to work, my MIL instigate my hubby into "asking" me whether we should have one more baby before doing that???? I feel so sad, also a bit betrayed. He knew it has been tough. And only now I feel better, look better & lighter, I cant imagine looking like a whale again... being pregnant. I really cant. I feel so sad now. I'm so disappointed with him! Very mad with him.

I call to complain to my mum & my friends. My whole family was really mad. My friends said they treat me like a baby making machine. I think I want to move back home to my mum's!

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13 comments:

  1. Liz2 July 2013 at 10:23

    Never do it when you are not ready! Enjoy your new baby first. Also yourself.

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  2. dharma10 July 2013 at 09:17

    Babies are over rated....lol....

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    1. BabyG15 July 2013 at 19:44

      LOL.... one of my good friends say the same thing !!!!

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  3. Joyce13 July 2013 at 10:13

    Do it when you are young. Don't wait too long.

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    1. Anonymous13 July 2013 at 20:13

      Not for everyone! Most in their twenties are not even capable of taking care of themselves let alone kids!

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    2. BabyG15 July 2013 at 19:45

      I do agree to a certain extend. As especially for those who are still in their teens or early 20s!

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  4. Anonymous25 July 2013 at 09:23

    Most people are never ready for kids. When you have them, you'll start learning. So don't wait for too long!

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    1. Bobo30 July 2013 at 09:50

      Unfortunately there are many who do just that & found out that they are lousy parents- but too late!
      The result, the poor kid got stuck with bad parenting & the parents blame the kids for ruining their lives!

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    2. BabyG20 August 2013 at 09:13

      Nothing is perfect. As a parent myself now I realise it must have been so hard for my parents! But Bobo I understand where u are coming from, I feel once you want to have a kid, like it or not, you better make sure you step it up! You are responsible for what you've created!

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  5. Kiki1 August 2013 at 10:31

    BabyG same thing happen to me-I cant stand it.
    Having 1 baby is hard enough, I went from a size 1 to 10!!! And it seems I'll never get back to my glorious self again. And while I'm feeling like an elephant, everyone- I mean everyone go like " so when is your next one????"... "one is too lonely, they need another sibling to accompany them!"
    Goodness, my own sister hates me, she said after I was born my parents don't give her attention anymore. And thru our growing up years she gave me hell !

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    1. BabyG20 August 2013 at 09:16

      Haha... I think many are in our shoes!
      Now I do feel better. I have a long long talk with my hubby. He in turn talk to my MIL. Now they don't mention it anymore. BUT I think she hates me even more these days because of that! Well like they say you cant have it all!

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    2. BoBo24 August 2013 at 11:45

      Never ever get cornered to have another kid. If you want it, it should be under your own terms.

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  6. Sue25 February 2014 at 09:44

    Thanks BabyG, I'm glad I found your blog. Reading all these makes me feel better about myself, Knowing I'm not the only one struggling .

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